i hate being judged and try to avoid it whenever possible

Based on yesterday's post, you may disagree, but once someone told me that I am the least judgemental person they have ever met. 

I have been reformed, and I agree. 

I wish other people were like me in that way. 

I hatehatehate feeling judged.  It's one of my least favorite things.

In all honesty, I judge people just like everyone else.   Inwardly.  In my own private mind.  But I don't mock them, call them out on their crap (for the most part) and make them feel bad or uncomfortable about things that they have said and done.  I just don't think it's my place to do that.

And I really don't think it's someone else's place to do that to me.

Unless of course you're someone in my very tiny little inner circle of people.  Then you can judge me and call me out on my crap.  Because then I feel like it is a worthy assessment.  Sorta.  I'm really a poor sport receiving constructive criticism.  Criticism = sucky.

Once someone told me that it is none of my business what other people think of me.

I was like, whoa! What a concept!  Seriously.
 
It really is none of my business what other people think of me, unless they make it my business.  I try to live by that lately, really I do.  Say this out loud to yourself ten times every day, and maybe it will make you feel less anxious and concerned about what is going on in people's minds.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.

There.  All done!